help me find the love of my life

so today is valentine's day. just another reminder that another year has gone by and i still have no one to share the "lovers' day" with. sometimes i think i like being single. and sometimes i have an amazingly strong desire to be in a relationship.
however, i really want to find myself with some close guy friends before i go romantic with anything. as corney as it sounds, i really want to have friends like in the tv show "friends". a few girls and a few guys. you live closeby, do everything together, and then end up falling in love with each other. of course without all the trashy stuff they do on the show :)

i am reminded of a book i read earlier this year that was written directly for singles. it said to view singlenness as a blessing, a gift from God. without the distractions of a boyfriend, i can use this time in my life to truly fall in love with God. to see Him as my love affair. i should be rejoicing in my singleness because it is a precious chance for me to view God as the One who loves me more than anyone else ever could. the only problem is that i gotta remember that when i'm longing for a boyfriend :)

Lord, help me to see You as my deep relationship. help me to fall head over heals in love with You and to trust Your timing for a relationship with mr. right.